St Mary's RC Primary School

Full of grace, we grow and learn together

Anti- Bulling Policy

St Mary’s RC Primary School, Stockport.

 

“Full of grace, we grow and learn together.”

 You are young, but don’t let anyone treat you as if you are not important. Be an example to show the believers how they should live. Show them by what you say, by the way you live, by your love, by your faith, and by your pure life.”                                                                                                                     1 Timothy 4:12 

Aims & purpose of the policy

 

At St Mary’s RC Primary School school we are committed to working with children, staff, governors and parents/carers to create a school community where bullying is not tolerated.

 Our school is a place where people have the right to be themselves, to be included and to learn in a safe and happy environment. Everyone at our school is equal and treats each another with respect and kindness

 Bullying of any kind is unacceptable and will not be tolerated at our school. At our school the safety, welfare and well-being of all pupils and staff is a key priority. We take all incidences of bullying seriously and it is our duty as a whole school community to take measures to prevent and tackle any bullying, harassment or discrimination.

We actively promote values of respect and equality and work to ensure that difference and diversity is celebrated across the whole school community. We want to enable our pupils to become responsible citizens and to prepare them for life in 21st Century Britain. These values reflect those that will be expected of our pupils by society, when they enter secondary school and beyond in the world of work or further study.

We are committed to improving our school’s approach to tackling bullying and regularly monitor, review and assess the impact of our preventative measures.

 

 We define bullying as: Bullying is the, wilful, conscious desire to threaten, intimidate or hurt someone, which may be repeated overtime, which involves a real or perceived power imbalance.

  

Identifying and supporting vulnerable children

 We work closely in school to identify particularly vulnerable groups, perhaps minority ethnic groups, travellers, refugees, LGBT pupils, midterm arrivals, pupils who transfer late into the school, children or young people in care, young carers, teenage parents and those with other special needs who may find it more difficult to make or sustain friendships.

 As a school we plan positive action to support these pupils with all relevant staff members and provide additional support where necessary, for example peer support through buddy schemes and help them access clubs and out of school provision.

 

Who is bullied?

 Anybody could be subject to bullying at any time in their life. It is not only something that affects children and young people.

 A person is bullied when, either as an individual or part of a group, she or he suffers in any way from the direct result of intentional and persistent harassment and/or victimisation by another individual or group.

 A person who has been bullied may commonly find it difficult to combat victim behaviour or report their experiences to those who may be able to help them.

 

Below are some factors that can make people vulnerable:

 Schools must refer to the Equality Act 2010 and the 9 protected characteristics within it, when dealing with bullying related incidents.

 Children and young people who are at most increased risk of being the victims or perpetrators of bullying are those who:

 

  • are in foster care or residential homes (looked after children)
  • are understood to be at risk from a range of safeguarding or child protection issues i.e. safeguarding / organised crime groups
  • have specific special educational needs (especially on the autistic spectrum)
  • have a disability or impairment
  • are from minority ethnic backgrounds
  • are refugees or asylum seekers
  • start a school or activity group mid term
  • are, or are perceived to be, gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender or questioning of their sexuality or gender
  • speak a first language other than English
  • are young carers
  • have suffered bereavement
  • have suffered domestic violence
  • have experienced physical or emotional trauma
  • have a parent that was a victim of bullying.
  • experienced poverty or deprivation

 

Methods of bullying:

 There are a number of methods of bullying which can be summarised as:

  •  Physical aggression – hitting, kicking, tripping up, spitting, taking or damaging property, use of threat or force in any way, intimidation or demands for money or goods
  • Verbal – name calling, insulting, teasing, ‘jokes’, mocking, taunting, gossiping, secrets, threats. Reference to upsetting events e.g. bereavement, divorce, being in care
  •  Non-verbal – staring, body language, gestures
  •  Indirect – excluding, ostracising, rumours and stories, emails, chat rooms, messaging phones, notes, inappropriate gestures
  •  Cyber – text messaging, internet chat rooms, the use of social media applications such as Snapchat, Instagram or WhatsApp, the misuse of camera or video facilities (including the self-generated inappropriate images), offensive questions and nasty inbox messages.
  •  Parental incitement

  

We acknowledge that some acts of bullying will constitute a criminal offence and in these cases other organisations will need to be contacted e.g. the Police or Social Care

 

Types of Bullying

 Bullying can be based on any of the following:

  •  Race (racist bullying)
  • Religion or belief
  • Culture or class
  • Gender (sexist bullying)
  • Sexual orientation (homophobic or biphobic bullying)
  • Gender identity (transphobic bullying)
  • Special Educational Needs (SEN) or disability
  • Appearance or health conditions
  • Related to home or other personal situation
  • Related to another vulnerable group of people

 

 No form of bullying will be tolerated and all incidents will be taken seriously.

 

Derogatory language

 Derogatory or offensive language is not acceptable and will not be tolerated. This type of language can take any of the forms of bullying listed in our definition of bullying. It will be all challenged by staff and recorded and monitored on [SIMS or other school database or central recording system] and follow up actions and sanctions, if appropriate, will be taken for pupils and staff found using any such language. Staff are also encouraged to record the casual use of derogatory language using informal mechanisms such as a classroom log. Staff should be encouraged to report the use of derogatory language through their own school systems.                                          

 

Prejudice-based incidents

 A prejudice-based incident is a one-off incident of unkind or hurtful behaviour that is motivated by a prejudice or negative attitudes, beliefs or views towards a protected characteristic or minority group. It can be targeted towards an individual or group of people and have a significant impact on those targeted. All prejudice-based incidents are taken seriously and recorded and monitored in school, with the head teacher regularly reporting incidents to the governing body. This not only ensures that all incidents are dealt with accordingly, but also helps to prevent bullying as it enables targeted anti-bullying intervention

 

 Possible indicators of bullying include:                 

We recognise that the following behaviours may suggest someone is being bullied.

 However, we also recognise that the list is not exhaustive.

 

  • disturbed sleep
  • bed-wetting
  • head and stomach aches
  • problems with concentration,
  • changes in behaviour and attitude
  • truanting
  • bullying other children
  • damaged or missing clothes / money / property,
  • asking for more money than usual or stealing money
  • withdrawn or changes in their usual behaviour patterns or attitude
  • distressed or emotional and finds it hard to articulate their feelings
  • changes in their eating patterns
  • changes in their online activity
  • shows evidence of self-harming or even for extreme cases  potential suicide
  •  is unusually tired without a reasonable explanation
  •  has unexplained bruises or marks on their body, (some may refuse to change for PE)
  •  repeatedly comes to school without dinner money or a packed lunch
  • seems afraid to be alone and requires more adult interaction.

 

School initiatives to prevent and tackle bullying

 We use a range of measures to prevent and tackle bullying including:

 

  • A child-friendly anti-bullying policy [Insert where available, for example displayed in classrooms or in pupil planners] ensures all pupils understand and uphold the anti-bullying policy

 

  • The PSHE programme of study includes opportunities for pupils to understand about different types of bullying and what they can do to respond and prevent bullying

 

  • School assemblies help raise pupils’ awareness of bullying and derogatory language
  • Difference and diversity are celebrated across the school through diverse displays, books and images. The whole school participates in events including Anti-Bullying Week, Black History Month and LGBT History Month [Insert other events in your calendar here]

 

  • The school values of equality and respect are embedded across the curriculum to ensure that it is as inclusive as possible

 

  • Stereotypes are challenged by staff and pupils across the school

 

  • Playground buddies and pupil-led programmes, eg restorative champions, offer support to all pupils, including those who may have been the target of bullying

 

  • Restorative Approaches provide support to victims of bullying and those who show bullying behaviour

 

  • Pupils are continually involved in developing school-wide anti-bullying initiatives through consultation with groups through the school council, anti-bullying surveys and restorative approaches.

  

Reporting – roles and responsibilities

 STAFF: 

All school staff, both teaching and non-teaching (for example midday supervisors, caretakers, librarians) have a duty to report bullying, to be vigilant to the signs of bullying and to play an active role in the school’s measures to prevent bullying. If staff are aware of bullying, they should reassure the pupils involved and inform their class teacher.

The following staff members are anti-bullying leads: [Insert name and contact details here]

 

SENIOR STAFF:

 The Senior Leadership Team and the head teacher have overall responsibility for ensuring that the anti-bullying policy is followed by all members of staff and that the school upholds its duty to promote the safety and well-being of all young people. In addition to the designated anti-bullying leads, [Insert name of designated staff] is the Senior Leader responsible for anti-bullying.

 

 PARENTS AND CARERS:

 Parents and Carers should look out for potential signs of bullying such as distress, lack of concentration, feigning illness or other unusual behaviour.

Parents and carers should encourage their child not to retaliate, support, and encourage them to report the bullying when it occurs.

 

We find that it is much more effective to speak to the school direct when an incident occurs and not to post it on social media as this may affect and delay any investigations and outcomes.

 

Parents and carers can report an incident of   bullying to the school either in person, or by phoning or emailing the school office or a member of staff admin@st-maryrc.stockport.sch.uk or 0161 480 5319

 Pupils should not take part in any kind of bullying and should watch out for signs of bullying among their peers. They should never be bystanders to incidents of bullying, but should offer support to the victim and, if possible, help them to tell a trusted adult.

 

Parents and Carers must also give due regard to and follow the principles of our Respect Charter on school premises towards pupils, staff and other parents

 Non-school staff, volunteers and outside organisation (Sports Coaches, etc) also need to be made aware of the schools policy and the reporting of incidents

 

Dealing with an Incident

 When bullying has been reported, the following actions will be taken:

 

  • Staff will investigate and record the bullying on the schools incident reporting form and also record the incident centrally on a central paper recording system.

 

Restorative meetings MUST be held for any incident, which is deemed to be Race or Hate related including homophobic and transphobic incidents)

 

  • Designated school staff will monitor incident reporting forms and information recorded on [SIMS or other school database, or central paper recording system] analysing and evaluating the results

 

  • Designated school staff will produce termly reports summarising the information, which the head teacher will report to the governing body
  • Staff will offer support to the victim with the pupil’s class teacher/ form tutor. Individual meetings will then be held to devise a plan of action that ensures they are made to feel safe and reassured that the bullying is not their fault, this may involve a restorative meeting. Action plans will make use of [school initiatives such as mentors, buddy systems and lunchtime monitoring)

 

  • Staff will pro-actively respond to the perpetrator bully who may require support. They will discuss with the target’s class teacher to devise a plan of action

 

  • Staff will decide whether to inform parents or carers and where necessary involve them in any plans of action

 

  • Staff will assess whether any other authorities (such as Police or the Local Authority) need to be involved, particularly when actions take place outside of school.

 

Safeguarding procedures must be followed when child protection concerns arise.

 

Bullying outside of school

 Bullying is unacceptable and will not be tolerated, whether it takes place inside or outside of school. Bullying can take place on the way to and from school, before or after school hours, at the weekends or during the holidays, or in the wider community. The nature of cyber bullying in particular means that it can impact on pupils’ well-being beyond the school day. Staff, Parents and Carers, and pupils must be vigilant to bullying outside of school and report and respond according to their responsibilities as outlined in this policy.

 

School will use their sanctions when it becomes apparent that any incident of bullying is having an impact on an individual and/ or the school community

 

Training and Awareness

 The head teacher is responsible for ensuring that all school staff, both teaching and non-teaching (including midday supervisors, caretakers, librarians, outside agencies and volunteers, parents and governors) receive regular training on all aspects of the anti-bullying policy.

 

 

Recording and Reporting:

 We maintain a system of data collection and analysis in relation to any reported incidents of bullying in school. Termly feedback is made available for governors via the Headteacher report.

 All staff will use the agreed reporting format to alert the HT/designated SLT member of any bullying related incidents.

 

Monitoring and Evaluation:

 The head teacher is responsible for reporting to the governing body (and the Local Authority where applicable) on how the policy is being enforced and upheld, via the termly report. The governors are in turn responsible for monitoring the effectiveness of the policy via the termly report, by in school monitoring such as learning walks, and focus groups with pupils.

The policy is reviewed every 12 months, and a committee set up to oversee the review process.

 

Date of last review: November 2018           

 

Links to other school policies:

 

This anti-bullying policy links to a range of policies/strategies, including:

 

Equalities and Diversity policy

Equality Act 2010

Behaviour policy

Care and control policy

PSHE policy

Peer on Peer Abuse

School values

School ‘bee-attitudes.’

Safeguarding policy

Responsible Use policy

School Development plan

Restorative Approaches strategy

  

Frequently Asked Questions

 

Q: Should we prioritise tackling some types of bullying over others?

A: Immediate physical safety obviously comes first. All bullying, whatever the motivation or method, is unacceptable and should not be tolerated. Some issues will be more familiar to schools than others and this guidance points to other specialist organisations for further information about how to tackle specific types of bullying. Please see ‘Further Sources of Information’ at the end of this document.

 

Q: Should we investigate bullying incidents involving our pupils when they occur outside of school?

A: Yes. If an incident of bullying outside the school premises is reported to the school, it is important that it is investigated and appropriate action is taken.

 

 

Q: How can we involve parents more in our anti-bullying work?

A: Schools should talk to parents about their anti-bullying policy and make it available to them and prospective parents as part of their behaviour policy. Schools should ensure that parents know what measures are being taken to prevent bullying, as well as how incidents are responded to, and may also encourage positive messages about good behaviour and respect for others at home.

 

Q: Should I record incidents of bullying?

A: Staff should develop a consistent approach to monitoring bullying incidents in their school and evaluating whether their approach is effective. For some schools, that will mean recording incidents so that they can monitor incident numbers and identify where bullying is recurring between the same pupils.